Opinions are not Facts: The Art of being Grateful

I have come to learn that in life, it is much better to let go of the past and everything it came with. There is no point in holding grudges. Also learn that whatever someone else does is their issue to deal with, not yours.

Never place too much importance to what others might say or think of you. People will talk regardless of what you do so the best thing would be to keep doing you the best way you know how to. A friend once said to me, “opinions are not facts”, also that “someone else’s opinion of you doesn’t define who you are.” That was me two years ago, I cared a little too much what others thought of me, and I let it get to me. Now, I’m grateful that I’ve come past all that irrelevant nonsense. I’ve come to learn that letting someone else measure your self-worth is equivalent to self-destruction.

No matter what you may do in your life, never let another mortal define who you are, or let them tell you the type of person you should be. You, and only you have the power to measure your self-worth, and only you have the key to your destiny.

Another great thing I learned is letting go of the negativity in your life. Nothing is comparable to the feeling you get when you move past all the pettiness, and irrelevant things you once had in your life. The keyword for today would be to “LET GO”. Don’t hold things within you, free it all from your heart, because the minute you start withholding grudges, you’re paving a way for negative thoughts to creep into your mind and heart.

Never let anyone push you to the extent of losing your path and becoming someone you won’t be proud of. Navigate your life the way you want it, take control of yourself, talk to god for guidance. Believe me, if you do all of the above, nothing and no one would be able to stand in your path.

Make no mistake about it, life is an obstacle course full of never ending challenge, but that doesn’t mean you should lay down and let it creep in, pull up your GADDAMN pants and show that bitch that you’re ready for whatever it is going to throw at you. Stand your ground and never give-up!!!!!

However, in conquering the world and fighting this disease, NEVER look down on others, NEVER step on others to get ahead, and ALWAYS be cautious because whatever you do to your fellow man, best believe that same thing or worse would be done to you.

LOVE AND BELIEVE IN YOURSELF. TRUST GOD TO GUIDE YOU TO THE RIGHT PATH!! If you have all three, then nothing or no one is beyond your reach. Aim for the sky, and reach for the stars.

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